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Single and Searching? Food for thought.

Isaiah 34:16 'Search from the book of the Lord and read, none shall lack her mate...'

Every single has a God given mate as commanded in the Holy Book. Due to our own undoing we miss our 'mate'. As a single hoping to settle down, you may want to consider the following:
  1. Get education and  get some skills.
  2. Always say the truth, he/she will find out anyway.
  3. Add value to your life.
  4. Do not pretend to be who you are not the guys have seen them all.
  5. Learn to put something in the relationship, stop being demanding.
  6. There are more girls than mothers in the society, ladies should learn to be moms and not just girls.
  7. The idea of being equal with a man should be ditched, no man wants a rival but a friend, wife and mom.
  8. Her moral values and attitude should supersede all culture sometimes.
  9. A man wants a woman that will add value to his life and those of his kids and family in general.
  10. Some ladies want to be married but are not prepared for marriage.
  11. "I am not here to please any man...but my man has to keep me happy". A wife/mom material will never utter such a statement. Relationship is a two-way thing, when you give... you shall receive. When you please...you shall be pleased. When you love...you shall be loved. When you sow...you shall reap!
  12. When a man shows the slightest sign of violence, do not ignore or try to change him. Flee! No matter how desperate you are, once a 'hitter, always a hitter'. You may lose your life for it.
  13. Real men do not hit women, they hit the 'ring'.
  14. Beauty without Brain is like a cup without depth.
  15. Do not judge a man by his humble beginning, great gifts come in small packages.
  16. A woman who shows her natural endowments in public has nothing decent to offer in private. 
  17. Do not be deceived by his/her outward appearance. True beauty lies within.

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