"There is no one formula in marriage". This is a very common saying when it comes to marriage issues and making marriages work. When people talk of formula in Marriage, I get a bit confused because I know that marriage is not Mathematics, Physics, Chemistry or Economics where you apply formula. Most formulas are founded by some people to solve or find answers and solutions to potential problems. When you see marriage as a problem then you will need to look for formulas to solve it. Marriages aren't a bed of roses and neither are they a bed of thorns either... Having been in this institution of constant learning I have come to realise from Experience that there is no fool proof formula to happy marriages. When you see marriage as a home you intend to move into and live peacefully for the rest of your life, all you will look for will be items to beautify the home, remove items that wouldn't fit (attitude) change positions of furniture and items (responses to action