The Unconventional Hearts

Model: EyinjuEledumare Sunday Kehinde. Age: 8 Months Old. YOUR NAIJA YOUR CHANGE...and Me.  The change will not come from above, neither will it come from below or around YOU. The change will come from YOU. Yes! YOU, within YOU!. The change is all about what you can contribute positively to the betterment of this country. Its about what YOU do, how well YOU do it and how sincere YOU are at doing it. Yes, change is a gradual process, but if YOU start positive change, get people around YOU to change positively, through not just by mere words of mouth, but by YOUR actions also, and get them to get their own people to effect positive change, then it will  be well on the way. It is high time YOU stopped blaming the government and situations and circumstances around YOU and began to stand up and do something about the state of YOUR country. I AM watching and WAITING to grow into a CHANGED NAIJA so that I can volunteer my own CHANGE!

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage. Please find strength and courage by spreading love all around you.

Time and temptation are good testers of spirituality. They reveal it.

The love we give away is the only love we keep.

Holiness naturally invokes empathy from our Lord Jesus Christ because it is an inspired relationship with God which we have not merited. Aspire to be holy.

Do not make a career out of your problems, ARISE from the ruins, dust yourself up and SHINE!

You make a living by what you get, but you make a life by what you give.

Trust must be a full-hearted thing, for you cannot trust a man towards whom you have reservations.

Being mature is when you realize that every situation does not need a reaction.

Your value does not decrease because someone is dead blind to notice your worth! Enjoy your life to the fullest in Christ. Life has no duplicate.

Dress the way you want to be addressed does not mean that everyone around you has a say in what you find aesthetically pleasing. Be comfortable in your own skin and wear what highlights your best features and covers flaws without being offensive with your dressing. Everyone is beautiful, you just have to find what works for you.

Isaiah 34:16 'Search from the book of the Lord and read, none shall lack her mate...' Every single has a God given mate as commanded in the Holy Book. Due to our own undoing we miss our 'mate'. As a single hoping to settle down, you may want to consider the following: Get education and  get some skills. Always say the truth, he/she will find out anyway. Add value to your life. Do not pretend to be who you are not the guys have seen them all. Learn to put something in the relationship, stop being demanding. There are more girls than mothers in the society, ladies should learn to be moms and not just girls. The idea of being equal with a man should be ditched, no man wants a rival but a friend, wife and mom. Her moral values and attitude should supersede all culture sometimes. A man wants a woman that will add value to his life and those of his kids and family in general . Some ladies want to be married but are ...

Anyone can make you smile, anybody can make you cry, but it takes someone really special to make you smile with tears in your eyes.

She does not necessarily want you to solve the problems she discusses with you, she probably just want to talk about it, so please just listen.

She had always loved no one else but him. She gave her all without holding back. When he sneezed she shook. She was ready to go to the moon and back for him. All she ever asked for was a little attention. Just to show that he cared a little.  He took her for granted. Like a thief in the night he crawled into her life. It was a minor headache, then a chest pain. He believed she could cope. It was a Friday night and he had to hang out with the boys. He wouldn’t leave his friends just this one Friday night. The pain became unbearable, she managed to drive to the hospital alone but couldn’t get out of the car. He was there just in time to see and rescue her. He was a stranger. He saw an Angel. How did she manage to get to the hospital? Where was her husband (he noticed the wedding ring), family? For two weeks he was there for her without any strings attached; but not knowing the feelings were developing for this helpless creature. Her husband was too busy and will only call or som...

A  man who cannot open the mind of his woman has no moral justification to open her pant . 

Not all tear drops mean pain. Some joys are better expressed in tears.

Not everything that is correct is the truth. In the middle of what you are not seeing lies the truth.

You do not have to fuss about him or her, just like a pair of shoes, if its your size it will fit perfectly without having to squeeze or force. No pain! It is almost effortlessly seamless.

Some people cry not just because they are weak, sometimes it is just because they have been strong for too long.

Interesting  to note that my silence can never be copied, forwarded or quoted. Some words are better spoken unuttered. Clear actions but unstated reasons. Only the intelligent will understand.

We human beings are stronger than a stone but more tender than a flower. Often times we allow our hardheadedness get in the way of things or situations that require tender approach; emotions run wild, feelings are hurt what ordinarily would have come and gone would end up bringing eternal hurt and pain.